Thursday, 30 July 2009

My token of appreciation

First of all, this is a backdated post. It may seems drama but I really am grateful. I gave all my effort on my work and studies, sometimes I even skipped my meals because of the works I'm handling. I always give my 100% concentration on something which I think I'm responsible for. Even if it's my responsibility or not, I'll still try my best to solve the problem. Am I just plain silly or I overworked myself? Anyway, the effort I put into my work didn't go waste, I was being appreciated for the works I've done. Although these gifts may seem nothing to some of you, but it means a lot to me. I'm really grateful that I was employed by them. I might have endless of works to do and got scolded when I did mistake but I've learnt my lesson and at least I know I'm appreciated for the works I've done. Just like the old saying "No pain, no gain". It's true people! Believe it! I experienced pain and now I gain what I deserve.

Softener, moisturiser, cleanser

My First Coach from my boss


You know what? I cried several times due to the workload from the office, got scolded by boss and assignments that strikes me at the same time. In times, I am kind of angry of my boss coz sometimes I did too much things for her but I don't know why my anger just gone away in just a few mins time eventhough I'm angry. I'm still so young and I have to manage such pressures. This is not what a normal teenager is supposed to do. This is not the plan I made early of this year. I was supposed to work part time for few months and start studying full time. All the friends at my age are enjoying their college life, shopping or movies after class, sem breaks holidays etc. In contrast, whenever I have sem break holiday, it's not a holiday or a big deal to me, as I still have to go to work. Anyway, cut the crap! I've learnt a lot during this period of time working in the company, my boss is the kind of person with high expectations and requirements. I'm glad that I can fulfilled all the requirements and I've learnt from my mistakes. "Those who forget the past, condemns to repeat it" .

THOUSANDS OF THANKS TO YOU, EVANGELINE! Without her, I won't be able to work and manage my time so well now. This post is specially thank her. If you were not here, I won't be able to earn my Polynia Cleanser, Softener & Moisturiser and Coach bag. Your name; Evangeline(from Evangelism) suits your personality well. Once again,


THANK YOU VERY MUCH!Me & Evangeline

Friday, 17 July 2009

Complicated story

The story begins with Brandy, an 18 year old young man with a complicated and broken family. One day, he met a 13 year old girl with a caring and protective family. They are both from a completely different family background or should I say a different world. At last after knowing each other for 5 years, both of them started dating. The both of them were very loving at first. Just like normal couples out there, go out for romantic dinner, movies, hold hands etc.

A month later, Brandy texted his girl friend and tell her about his family problems out of a sudden. The girl was usually very patient in listening people's problem but because of the exhausting day, she couldn't wait till the message comes and doze off. The next day, both of them just got back to normal and his problem seem to fade away physically but not mentally. So, the girl just assumed that everything goes back to normal but not for Brandy.

Two months later, in the middle of the night, Brandy nudged the girl in msn and told her about their relationship are having problem. The girl asked why and Brandy replied with "I want a person which can accompany me 24/7 and I can tell her my problems" "When I tell you my problems, you ran away". The girl was puzzled and confused of what he said. From the first day the both of them started dating, Brandy already knew the girl was always busy as she has to work in the morning and study at night. Do you think she have the energy and time to be with him 24/7? Besides, a relationship is not about being with each other 24/7, it's about understanding one another.

Furthermore, the girl explained to him that she didn't run away when he told her his problem, in fact she fell asleep and guess what? Brandy replied her this "You know I'm facing a problem with my family here and yet you can fall asleep!" Come on! You can't blame this on her, it's not her fault. She has huge responsibilities and task everyday. A normal human being will get tired of all these work loads in a day. Not like she's a robot or some kind of alien. Lame to say that the both of them broke up in the net. They didn't even have a proper phone call to settle this matter. The emotional part arrived, the girl spent the whole night crying herself to sleep as she was confused why they broke up because of this unreasonable excuse.

Day after the both of them broke up, the girl texted the guy with this;
"I'm glad that I have a chance to know you deeper. I'm not sure if I should be sad or what because you told me off in msn. It seems so immature. I know I might not be a good gf but I'm definitely serious and responsible for the relationship I'm in."

Brandy replied the message with anger;
"Yes, I'm immature, I always argue for the unfair things my parents and my brother did to me, since I was young, nobody listens to my problem and I am always the one who is wrong. You won't understand how I feel, I feel lonely since I was young till now. My father left us and gave everything to my elder brother. All my uni mates are seeking for advantages from people including my close friends. I don't like to carry balls like them. I prefer to stay away from them instead. As for the other group of my close friends, I can't afford to join them because they spend too much and whenever I pour my problems out to them, they run away as well. I felt hurt the moment you fell asleep when I tell you my problems. I lied to myself and thought it was ok. I also understand that you have to work and study, I feel very lonely because I can only see you once a week. You will never understand me, even my parents don't know me."

The relationships ends here as Brandy insisted to say that his gf doesn't understand him and unable to be with him all the time. Hence, whose fault was that? Is it Brandy's fault for being childish or is it the girl's fault for not fulfilling his requirements?

Sunday, 5 July 2009

Yum cha session

It was tiring but yet quite fun going out with them. 1st stop at Wong Kok Char Chan Teng, Leisure Mall. After that, to Fun OK @ Connaught. That's where the fun begins! HAHA!
Wong Kok Char Chan Teng, Leisure Mall
Hor Fun with sliced beef & gingerIf I'm not mistaken, this is 'yue tao mai' (Fish head noodle)FriesWantan with fish paste and spicy gravyCheese baked rice. Fattening! As usual la.. See who eat onlyOriginal HK milk tea
FUN OK, Connaught (quite chunted place, nice environment)

Noob!

It's getting higher! Damn!

Our toy for the day

The resultForming a new oneOur creationAll fall downThe decorQuack Quack! Specially for my bro, TYM

Sunday, 21 June 2009

Specially for March intake SEGi students

The following names at the bottom are the nicknames of our dear friend.

Walrine

    Walrus

#1 Madam Kuan

#2 Walrine (Walrus's buddy)

#3 Piglet

#4 Flower horn

#5 Doraline

#6 Pingu

#7 Piggu

#8 Penguin

#9 Cat Bunny

#10 Doline

# 11 Pooh

Fellow segi-ians, you should know who's this right? If I missed out any of the nickname, please inform me. HAHAHA!

Thursday, 11 June 2009

Updates!

Hey peeps!

I'm back once again! I think I didn't update my news for ages already am I right? Here are some updates which I could think of for now.

1st- I finally bought my new phone, W595 on beginning of March.
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2nd-My grandma passed away in end of April
My grandma's coffin

3rd- I had a new hair cut in May
Look so kiddo right?

4th-
I finally got my driving license in May

5th- My semester 2 started few days ago

6th- AND, I'm officially broke lately!!

That's all folks! Cheers! Have a nice day!

This is ATPJ signing off.

Monday, 8 June 2009

OMG!

I just realised that I used to be a frequent blogger and now move on to an occassional blogger. =.=lll

Thousands appologies to readers!

Sorry readers, although I've had a few weeks of Sem break here but I couldn't update my blog. My dumb PC crashed and that's why I don't have a chance to surf the net. I will be MIA for some time here but I can't tell how long. Wait till I fix the PC or get a new lap top. Will see how things go. Anyway, I'll be starting my sem 2 tomorrow. Ciaoz peeps!

Sunday, 3 May 2009

LEE HOM ROCKSS!!

2 May 2009, Saturday

MUSIC-MAN is the theme for this year's concert! Before we get into the stadium, everyone was pushing and squeezing through the security check entrance. Me and Eunice managed to push our way in, and so she let the guard check her bag followed by me. After checking my bag, the guard wants to check her bag again. We were like "check already ma..". Thn the guard says "Bu yao jia jia (Don't pretend) laa.." with a fake smile. *pfft!* The concert started around 8.15pm with some local artist. Don't know who were they. =p. If I'm not mistaken, Music-Man came out around 8.30pm with his first song, 'Yao Kuan Che Me Le' slowly. HAHA! The whole crowd were screaming & shouting! You can't imagine how the crowd react. *out of breath* Fuhh! Moving on, unfortunately, the line that we were seating was a 'DEAD LINE'. Our line was SOOOO CALM and QUIET. Which is not a very normal scene in a concert. Sad case! The girl sitting next to me even yawned! Felt like I wanna smack her on the face. SHEEESHH!

Anyway, the concert went on wildly with excitement and screaming voices of crazy fans. LOL! I admit I'm one of the screaming fans. >.<. Hmmm, he sang 28 songs, I can't recall all the songs because he sang too many. =p. These are the memorable songs that he sang for the night; 'Yao Kuan Che Me Le', 'Xin Tiao', 'Luo Ye Gui Gen', 'Forever Love', 'Bu Wan Chen De Xuan Lu', 'Can You Feel My World', 'Ni Bu Zai', 'Jian Dan De Ge', 'Gai Bian Zi Ji', 'Gai Shi Ying Shiong', 'Kiss Goodbye', '(chinese version of Mary Says)', etc. That's all I can remember. LOL!

At the end of the concert, everyone was shouting for encore. Unfortunately it really end. =.=ll. We told each other that the next concert, we will all sit together instead of 1 here and there. Buy together, sit together, SCREAM together! HAHA!

Sunday, 26 April 2009

In Remembrance of my granny

IN REMEMBERANCE of my Granny.
14/2/1916 - 24/4/2009


I'll always remember the times when you raised me up. You are the one who taught me the chinese ethics and you were the one who always share your old stories with me. I'll miss u my "Ma ma"!

Thursday, 23 April 2009

AT LAST!!

I'm done with the ASSIGNMENTS/ COURSE WORKS!! AT LAST~!!! WAKAKAKAKA! Damn Excited! After sooooo LONG! I can finally have a good night rest. Phew! Will post a proper 1 soon. Ciaoz! ZZZZZzzzz

Saturday, 11 April 2009

My so-called packed schedule

HEY PEEPS!

This is for some of you who's been asking bout 'how's my life', 'how am I' and 'what have I been doing lately'. Felt like crying when I read my friends' blogs. Almost most of them are enjoying their college life whereas me? What am I doing? How's my life? Why is it like this? I know I shouldn't complain coz I chose this road for MYSELF. T.T . Why is life so unfair to me? Why can't I enjoy life like most college students? Just take a look at my daily schedule. I hardly have time for myself. It's like I have NO LIFE!

Weekdays except Wed: Work, 9am-6pm; College, 6.30-9.15pm; Eat, Do Hw & sleep.
Wed: Work, 9am-6pm; TV, Online, Do HW, Eat & Sleep (almost the same routine except I don't have class).
Sat: Girls' Brigade, 2-5pm; TV, Online, HW, Eat & Sleep.
Sun: Church, 11.45-1.30pm; Chinese Class, 2-4pm; after class have to go to Granny's place for dinner and the same old routine mentioned.

The only time I can hang out with friends are either after college; Sun, after class or if I skip GB, I have an extra free day. I want FREEDOM!!!

7 Ways to Slash Stress

Chronic stress seems to be our national disease, especially these days. Millions suffer from symptoms of stress: nervous tension, restless sleep, difficulty focusing and remembering, irritability, and health complications. Generally speaking, stress speeds up aging. Learn the ways to manage stress, and you will look and feel younger.

1. Start your day with meditation
Spend time every day in meditative relaxation, with calming music if you desire. Start with five minutes and work your way to 15 or 20 minutes each day. Meditation is your number one way to reduce the output of stress hormones and avoid adrenal exhaustion, serious threats to your health.

Try this Stress Release Meditation: Breathe consciously, relax, and with each exhale focus on relaxing each area of your body in sequence, starting from the top of your head and moving all the way down to your toes.

2. Manage your mood with diet and herbs
Chinese Medicine considers the liver to be the center of your emotions. To allay stress and balance your emotions, keep your liver healthy and happy:
• Every day, eat lots of green leafy vegetables, barley grass, seaweed - anything high in chlorophyll - to keep the liver in good health.
• Take 500 mg dandelion daily for a month or longer to cleanse the liver and help release built-up anger.
• Take 400 mg white peony root daily for 1 to 3 months to soothe the liver and balance your mood.
• Schisandra berry protects the liver from chemicals and calms the spirit. For emotional anxiety, take 200 mg daily for a month.

Take these herbs anytime during the day and before bed in tea or capsule form. All the herbs are available from health food stores and Eastern medicine practitioners. Many of my patients have had remarkable results with Calm-Fort Elixir, an all-natural formulation of herbs to calm your spirit. For more information, click here.

3. Suppress stress with positive thinking
Instead of letting your thoughts run wild with anxiety, say affirmations to yourself, such as "I can handle the tasks I have ahead of me. I enjoy my responsibilities and fulfill them well." In fact, repeating positive affirmations can actually suppress the cortisol that the adrenal gland releases in times of stress - leaving you peaceful and calm.

4. Get stress out of your head and on paper
Writing in a journal every day can help you release thoughts and emotions that are causing you stress. Write from the position of an observer, recording your thoughts without any judgments. Just write it down so that you can see clearly what is going on inside. The next step is to identify the source of any anger or stress so you can begin to make changes. Looking into your thoughts give you the opportunity to gain insight into your feelings and reflect the underlying issues.

5. Unblock tension with exercise
The constant pressures of your job and family can lead to chronically elevated levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which is a direct cause of muscle and joint pain. Clenched jaw? Lump in your throat? Chronic back and neck pain? These can all be manifestations of stress in your body. Release physical tension and clear these emotional blockages by using massage therapy, exercise, yoga, tai chi, or qi gong to get the circuits moving.

6. A Retreat to Avoid Burnout
Overloading your brain is a recipe for stress and health problems. Information overload is particularly harmful at midlife because we have less tolerance for stress, which can contribute to high blood pressure and heart disease. Press the "reset" button on yourself. Give yourself a retreat from the stresses of modern life. Take one day out of the seven-day week to minimize "screen" time. Don't watch TV, don't check email, and don't look at the news - it will be there tomorrow, and after a day of rest, you will be refreshed and ready to look at them.

7. Perspective from the Natural World
Use nature to reduce stress. Go outside, hike in the woods, walk on the beach, anything that puts you in contact with the natural world. It is difficult to feel stressed when you are surrounded by nature's abundance of vitality and wonder.

By Dr Mao : http://health.yahoo.com/experts/drmao/16392/7-ways-to-slash-stress/

6 Natural Tips for Deep Sleep

Would you like to sleep like a baby without taking drugs? Americans spend upwards of 3 billion dollars a year on sleep medications, but to avoid the side effects, there are a number of natural remedies you can try first. Read on to learn some of the ways to get a good quality night's sleep.

1. Relaxing Rituals to Rest Easy
In Chinese Medicine, nighttime is 'yin' time—or, simply, when the body takes care of itself instead of your desires. Proper sleep is required for your body to repair itself and regenerate. To reach deep, restful sleep, your spirit and heart must be calm. Excessive worry, anxiety, and depression can all disturb the spirit and activate the mind—making it near impossible to fall asleep and stay asleep. Rituals to sooth your spirit and induce a sleep response before bed include soaking your feet in Epson salts for 15 minutes, writing all of your thoughts in a journal to get them out of your head, and practicing relaxation before bed, like the Stress Release meditation below.

2. When Food Disturbs Sleep
When you eat late, you wake up tired. Your body will be busy digesting your dinner while you are trying to sleep, so you won't feel rested in the morning. Do not eat anything for at least three hours before bedtime. Also, cut back on eating bacon, cheese, chocolate, ham, potatoes, tomatoes, and sausage, especially before bed. These foods contain tyramine, which inhibits neurochemicals like norepinephrine and can cause insomnia. And, of course if you have sleep problems, caffeine should be cut out.

Eat for sleep! Try eating more grains at dinner; carbohydrates tend to make people sleepy. Another snooze snack is a warm cup of milk; because milk is rich in the amino acid tryptophan, it can sometimes aid in deep sleep. Mix in natural vanilla flavoring for a soothing snack. Or if you prefer, eat 1 cup of natural yogurt an hour before bedtime.

3. A Peaceful Place for Sleep
Your sleeping environment makes a huge difference to the quality of your sleep. Do everything you can to create a quiet and cozy atmosphere. Ideally, your bedroom should be located in the quietest area of your home. Keep the décor minimal. Lighting should be dim and any music that is played should be soothing. Research has found that lavender, vanilla, and green apple are among the best scents to help lower anxiety and induce sleep, making these smells a good choice for a scented candle or heated essential oil. Try to limit your pets to outside of the bedroom because their movements will keep with your body from fully relaxing into deep R. E. M. sleep. As much as possible, your bedroom should be only for sleep.

4. Exercise Enables Sleep
People with regular exercise routines often sleep better and have fewer incidents of insomnia than those don't get regular physical activity. Exercise promotes sleep and improves sleep quality by altering brain chemistry. Exercising moderately for 20 to 30 minutes three times a day, combined with meditation or tai chi in the evening, will not only help you fall and stay asleep, but will also increase the amount of time you spend in R.E.M. sleep. In fact, for some people, exercise alone is enough to overcome sleep problems. Exercise in the morning or afternoon, but do not exercise for at least two hours before bed.

5. Herbs to Sleep Tight
A calming tea before bedtime can ensure a good night's sleep. Drink valerian or passionflower (or passiflora) tea before bedtime every night for one month. Simply steep 1 to 2 tablespoons of the dried herbs in one cup of hot water and drink just before bed. Or look for one with the traditional Chinese herbs zizyphus or jujube seed, bamboo shavings, and oyster shell, which soothe the mind and spirit.

You might also try Calm-Fort/Sleep formula with useful herbs like lily bulbs, polygala and turmeric that help manage stress and calm the spirit while relieving restlessness and insomnia.

6. A Sleep-Friendly Meditation
I had one patient with insomnia who also felt anxious and even a little depressed. In addition to acupuncture and herbal therapies, I decided to teach her a stress release meditation that she could do before bedtime to help with her anxiety. I am happy to report that she is now sleeping like a baby.

Try this Stress Release meditation, which works for the majority of my patients who have sleeping problems:

Sit comfortably or lie down on your back. Slow your respiration to deep, abdominal breathing. Utter the word "calm" in your mind with every exhalation. Focus on relaxing each area of your body in sequence, from the top of your head to your toes. Starting with the top of your head, inhale and then exhale while visualizing your scalp muscles relaxing. Say "calm" in your mind. Repeat this with each body part as you move down through all body parts, front, back, and sides, in succession: your face, throat, chest, arms, stomach, abdomen, thighs, knees, legs, ankles, until finally you reach your feet. When you've relaxed your feet, visualize all the tension in your body leaving through your toes as dark smoke. Practice this for at least 15 minutes before bedtime.

Note: Got this from Dr Mao http://health.yahoo.com/experts/drmao/17735/6-natural-tips-for-deep-sleep/

Bedtime habits that are runining your sleep

Here are some tips again, I want my blog to be beneficial to all my readers. That is why I post all these informations for those who are facing all these stress, imsonia etc. Enjoy the post!

If you’re having trouble falling asleep, you’re in good company. An estimated 65% of Americans said they encounter sleep problems a few nights each week, according to a recent study by the National Sleep Foundation. Sleeping too little is linked with an increased risk for obesity and depression. But before you reach for a sleep aid from the nearest pharmacy, it’s worth re-examining your nighttime routine. Some of your favorite evening rituals could be responsible for that tossing and turning.

1. Setting a Bright Alarm Clock
The looming glare of your alarm clock can be distracting when trying to sleep. The goal is to have as dark a room as possible. Block the bright numbers with a book or consider buying a small travel clock. Your cell phone alarm may also do the trick.

2. Counting Sheep
When you just can’t fall asleep, it’s useless to stay in bed. If you’ve been trying to fall asleep for more than 30 minutes, the National Sleep Foundation suggests doing something mundane, like balancing a checkbook, reading or watching TV. An activity that demands marginal brainpower will lull your mind. Before you know it, you’ll be crawling back into bed genuinely tired.

3. Exercising Late at Night
Daytime workouts will keep you invigorated for hours. That’s why you don’t want to exercise within three hours of hitting the sack. Intense physical activity raises your body temperature and pumps your energy level—both interrupt a calm transition into sleep.

The above text are extracted from http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/health/bedtime-habits-that-are-ruining-your-sleep-199441/

Sunday, 5 April 2009

Updates on my college life

Here's a little update on my college life. Overall it's still ok, I enjoy life in college because I knew a bunch of good friends there. Although I'm the youngest but like I said, I don't look, think and act like the people of my age. Sad case, is this called matured or old? =.=lll. Sometimes after class I feel tired and sometimes I feel energetic but most of the time tiredness is more than the energetic one. So far the subjects I'm taking in Sem 1 are not those tough subjects. I'm currently taking Financial Accounting 1(that's what we learnt in SPM) & Introduction to Business. FYI, my coursework due date is on 17th(FA1) & 21st(ITB) April. SO FAST WEII! OMG! Anyway, I went for the English Placement Test today. It's a test to identify which english paper you can drop over the three papers according to the result of this test. I'm praying hard that I can drop all 3 papers because I don't want to waste my time & money taking all these papers.
SEGI main block entrance Intro to Business Lecturer, Tony Leong
Financial Accounting Lecturer, Ms Loong

Introducing my new friends in college.

Catherine (Working in Bento King)

Tiffany a.k.a Huey Teng (working in HP)Boon Kit ,U Mobile guy [Look at the shirt! XD]
Pey Ying (Forgotten which Bank. Sorry)

FOOD EVERYWHERE!

WARNING: IF YOU'RE HUNGRY, CLOSE MY BLOG AND OPEN IT BACK WHEN YOU'RE BLOATED.
Since I abandon my blog for quite some time before the 2 latest post, here are some pictures of nice food I ate in different places. =D.
These were taken in Papa John's, TS while having dinner with mum & her friend.

Mexican DelightMushroom soup
Meat balls

These were taken in 'Food & Tea' when I went out with Kai Lynn & Bee Leng the other day at TS.Black pepper beef noodleSpaghetti wrapped with cheese.

These were taken in Food Republic,Pavilion while having dinner with mum.Tom Yam Beef NoodleForgotten the name of this noodle. =p

These were taken in Mid Valley (forgot the restaurant name) while having dinner with Evan.Evan's Fried Kuey TeowMy Curry Noodle. Ordered on behalf of Evan because she can't eat it but at least she can see me eating it and can take a small spoon of it.

These were taken in 9888 restaurant, Cheras. Having dinner there with family & Sis bf family.Fried egg + minced meat + Carrot + don't know what and what. It taste good of course!

ChickenPork KnuckleForgottenJapanese Snails. YUMM!Toufu with minced porkMayo Chicken & Thai Style Chicken

These pictures were taken in Kuala Selangor during a day trip with my mum and her friends.Passion Fruit. YUMM!Dragon fruit. Not bad! Longan. Never have a chance to try it but it looks good. =pChicken + Abalone + Sharkfin soup (In Cantonese it is called "Kai Bao Chi")Don't know what it's called but it sure tasted good! XDAwww.. Poor fishy!Fried RicePrawns. Mmmm CRABBY! MY FAV! =DIf I'm not mistaken the name of this is 'Onee' (It's yam + ginkgo inside the pumpkin)This is how it looks like when it's scooped out. It's DELICIOUS!